Whatever floats your boat

I can never be a bandwagoner. If for anything, I’m quite the opposite of that—almost impervious. I don’t find myself gravitating towards something that is ‘in’ or ‘popular’ just to have that feeling that I’m not missing out on it. You can’t expect me to like something only because everybody else does. I don’t do something primarily because other people are doing it. I’m the kind who leans to my own preference no matter how unpopular or obscure it is.

It’s not me being a curmudgeonly snob, but more like I’m not that easily influenced. If something ever piques my interest, you can be sure that outside factors almost had nothing to do with it. 

Like how I still don’t know anything about K-Pop, or have not watched a single episode of Game of Thrones to this day, or read any book from the Harry Potter series, or the fact that even if a lot of my friends are going “plantita”, I have not caved in. 

Sometimes I wonder that myself: Is there’s something wrong with me? Am I resistant to what’s popular just because I don’t want to be like all the rest? Then I realize it’s all overthinking; it’s not sheer arrogance or not wanting to conform, but more like being aware that it had to do with my own taste and inclination. It’s a matter of self-expression.

So thankful

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The past two weeks were just the worst. We had to rush mommy to the hospital in the early morning of July 3 when she had trouble breathing because of her cough. At first, mom refused to be taken to the hospital that it took an older cousin from the States to convince her via a video call that she has to go because it’s not really looking very good for her. 

When we got to the Emergency Room (thankfully it’s not as congested as the previous months), she was immediately hooked to an oxygen tank to help with her breathing. The ER doctors said her heart rate, SpO2 (oxygen saturation), and blood pressure are okay, with no fever or other alarming symptoms. They deduced mom has pneumonia but as per protocol, she had to be swab-tested just to make sure it’s not COVID. 

Scammed stupid

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You know how it is when you read about some obvious scam and you’d chuckle and say to yourself, “I will never fall for that!” 

When I hear victims say how as if they were manipulated and hypnotized (Tagalog: “budol”), I’d roll my eyes and gloat, “You didn’t see that coming?” 

Arrogance, yes. Always that reasoning, “I’m too smart and savvy to be fooled that way.”